Pelvic floor dysfunction is often framed as a women’s health issue—but as Dr. Adam Gvili has long emphasized, men are affected too— but there’s pelvic floor healing in male. And more often than not, they’re navigating it alone.
Male pelvic pain and pelvic floor issues are common but frequently overlooked. Symptoms of pelvic floor dysfunction in men can include urinary frequency, urgency, pelvic pain, and erectile dysfunction, as well as other urinary, sexual, and pain-related problems. Studies show that men wait an average of 4.2 years to seek help for pelvic floor dysfunction, but 70 to 80 percent see success in treating symptoms within just four to seven sessions of physical therapy.
In a candid conversation at Pelvis NYC, Adam sat down with Daniel Ross Noble, a former patient, to unpack what it really looks like to live with—and eventually recover from—chronic pelvic floor dysfunction. What emerged wasn’t just a patient story, but a clear reflection of Adam’s treatment philosophy: individualized care, emotional awareness, and removing the fear that surrounds men’s pelvic health.
00:00 Introduction to Daniel

Daniel Ross Noble: Yeah, thanks, Adam. I appreciate you having me on. My name’s Daniel. I’m 39. I just moved to New York City about a year ago. I’ve been in Los Angeles the last 15 years working in entertainment. I’m originally from the San Francisco Bay Area, worked in TV and film, and now I’m in the nonprofit sector.
Adam: Today, we’ve got Daniel joining us. He spent a few months with us at Pelvis NYC getting an inside look at how we approach pelvic health and pelvic floor therapy for male patients—especially complex cases like pelvic pain, urinary issues, and sexual dysfunction.
01:18 What Brought Daniel to Pelvic Floor Therapy
Daniel: I actually found you through a Business Insider article. I was reading it for my dad because he has prostate cancer and deals with frequent urination.
Urinary frequency and urinary incontinence are common symptoms of pelvic floor dysfunction in men. Urinary incontinence, which is the involuntary leakage of urine, can be caused by weak pelvic floor muscles, prostate surgery, or other factors. But as I kept reading, I realized a lot of the symptoms sounded like me.
At 18, I went through sexual assault. I had fissures, hemorrhoids, and didn’t really understand penetrative sex. I was using substances to numb the pain. Eventually, I had surgery, but I still had discomfort. Sex was stressful for me, and I thought something was wrong with my body.
So I booked a consultation—and it’s really changed my life.
04:04 Surgical Experience and Complications
Adam: What was your experience like with the surgery and post-op care?
Daniel: I didn’t have the best experience. I went to a well-known practice in Los Angeles, but the post-op care was pretty bad. I didn’t have a bowel movement for seven or eight days, which caused a fistula. Pelvic floor dysfunction can contribute to bowel issues, including difficulty with bowel movements and even problems like fecal incontinence or constipation. Managing bowel health through proper hydration and avoiding straining is important to prevent pelvic muscle irritation and support recovery.
They didn’t initially diagnose it correctly and kept cauterizing the wound. It was extremely painful. I developed hematomas, one of which burst, and eventually needed another surgery—a fistulotomy.
The whole process was traumatizing. Everything about treatment in that area became something my body wanted to reject.
07:31 Life After Surgery and Ongoing Pain
Adam: What was that year after surgery like?
Daniel: I felt really isolated. I was basically in a diaper for six months at one point.
I started talking about it more, and surprisingly, a lot of people—especially in the queer community—shared that they had similar symptoms. But no one really knew what to do.
Doctors told me I might not be able to have penetrative sex again because of the scarring. That created a lot of fear. Every sexual encounter came with anxiety, like I was broken.
Pelvic floor dysfunction can seriously impact sexual health, including causing erectile dysfunction. Studies show that men with pelvic pain have increased rates of erectile dysfunction, often due to pelvic floor muscle tension and dysfunction.
10:40 Discovering Pelvic Floor Therapy
Adam: Was pelvic floor therapy ever suggested to you before?
Daniel: No, never. I only learned about it from that article.
That’s when I found out pelvic floor physical therapy is actually a specialized form of physical therapy provided by a pelvic floor physical therapist. Pelvic floor therapy, also known as pelvic rehabilitation, helps men improve the strength and control of their pelvic floor muscles, which can benefit conditions like incontinence and erectile dysfunction.
Even friends who knew about pelvic floor therapy mostly associated it with women after childbirth. I tried other things like sex coaching, thinking maybe it was psychological—but nothing really worked.
And hearing “just relax” all the time—it’s stressful. If I could relax, I would.
12:47 Understanding the Condition
Adam: Based on your symptoms, you had a hypertonic pelvic floor. Your body learned to tighten as a response to trauma and stayed that way.
Pelvic floor tension and pelvic floor muscle dysfunction are common causes of pelvic floor pain and chronic pelvic pain in men. Chronic pelvic pain can affect the groin, genitals, rectum, and lower back, often resulting from muscle dysfunction, nerve injury, or conditions like pudendal neuralgia.
Daniel: Yeah, and I didn’t believe you at first. I had been dealing with it for so long.
But after about three months, I started seeing results. My body was able to open up naturally. That was really empowering.
14:30 Progress and Long-Term Results
Adam: Have you regressed at all since finishing therapy?
Daniel: No, and I thought I would.
It’s also mental—I still have those thoughts sometimes that something is wrong with me. But now I can challenge that. I can tell myself that’s an old narrative.
16:25 Differences in Treatment Approach
Adam: How did our approach differ from other providers?
Daniel: It was holistic.
You weren’t just treating the symptoms—you were understanding what I was going through mentally and emotionally. It felt safe.
Other providers didn’t even consider that I was a queer person having sex. That wasn’t part of the conversation. Here, it was.
20:41 Queer-Friendly Care and Safety
Adam: Did you bring that up with other doctors?
Daniel: Yeah, and I still felt dismissed.
At Pelvis NYC, it’s different. It feels inclusive and aware. That creates a safe space, which makes a huge difference.
21:58 Addressing the Male-to-Male Treatment Dynamic
Adam: What’s it like being treated by a straight male therapist?
Daniel: It’s actually great.
There’s no pressure. It’s not sexual. My body can just relax. A lot of my trauma is tied to sexual experiences, so being in a non-sexual environment helps me feel safe.
23:19 Trauma-Informed Care
Adam: We focus on trauma-informed care. Everything is individualized—how we talk to you, how we treat you, and how we guide your body to feel safe again.
25:38 Physical and Emotional Impact
Daniel: Every session, I leave feeling so relaxed.
Not in a sexual way—just physically released. My muscles finally relax, and it affects the rest of my day. Even my friends notice it.
Manual therapy techniques used in pelvic floor rehabilitation, such as myofascial release and trigger point therapy for muscle tension, help relieve pain, alleviate pain, reduce pain, and relieve tension in the pelvic muscles.
26:35 The Bigger Picture for Men’s Health
Adam: More men should be doing pelvic floor therapy.
Daniel: I agree. So many people would benefit from this. I even think about my dad and how this could help him.
A personalized treatment plan and specialized treatment techniques are essential for effective male pelvic floor healing, as they address each individual’s unique needs. The approach depends on whether the goal is to strengthen weak pelvic floor muscles or relax overactive muscles, ensuring the rehabilitation is tailored for the best results.
27:35 Understanding Without Fear
Daniel: When you told me I had a hypertonic pelvic floor, it didn’t feel scary.
Adam: That’s the goal. We’re not here to pathologize—we’re here to help you understand without adding fear.
28:12 Final Thoughts
Daniel: This changed my life.
When you’re dealing with something like this alone for so long, finding a solution is huge. It’s not just physical—it’s releasing shame and changing the narrative in your head.
I recommend this to everyone now.
Adam: Thank you for trusting us. I hope we don’t have to see you again—in that capacity.
Daniel: Same—but I’ll definitely come back to say hi.
Why This Conversation Matters for Men
Daniel’s story reinforces what Adam has been advocating for years:
- Men experience pelvic floor dysfunction more than we acknowledge, often due to weak muscles or poor muscle coordination.
- Many are misdiagnosed or never referred to proper care, missing out on the benefits of pelvic floor muscle training and therapy for male pelvic floor muscles.
- Emotional and psychological factors are deeply connected to physical symptoms, especially in cases of chronic pain related to pelvic floor muscles.
- Recovery requires more than just exercises—it requires understanding, but exercise is the cornerstone of pelvic floor rehabilitation, with condition-specific techniques like Kegel exercises and pelvic floor muscle training improving muscle control, pelvic floor strength, and muscle coordination.
- Pelvic floor muscle training, including Kegel exercises, can enhance sexual performance and pleasure by improving muscle strength and control, and most men notice improvements in bladder control or sexual function within 4 to 12 weeks of consistent pelvic floor exercises.
- A healthy pelvic floor is essential for coordination of urination, defecation, and sexual function.
And perhaps most importantly:
Men need spaces where they can talk about this openly.
Final Thoughts
This conversation wasn’t just about one patient’s recovery—it was about redefining how male pelvic floor health and pelvic floor muscle training are approached for men.
From Adam’s perspective as both a practitioner and former patient, to Daniel’s experience navigating years of pain, one thing is clear: improving pelvic health involves both targeted exercises like Kegels and adopting healthy lifestyle habits.
Healing happens when fear is replaced with understanding.
And for many men, that journey is just beginning.
Take the First Step Toward Recovery
If you’re experiencing symptoms of pelvic floor dysfunction—such as pelvic pain, discomfort, urinary issues, or challenges with sexual function—recognizing these symptoms is crucial for effective male pelvic floor healing. You’re not alone, and you don’t have to navigate it by yourself.

Pelvis NYC, founded by Dr. Adam Gvili, specializes in helping men overcome pelvic floor dysfunction through personalized, trauma-informed care. Pelvic floor therapy can help men manage conditions related to pelvic floor dysfunction, including urinary incontinence, chronic pelvic pain, and sexual dysfunction, by improving muscle coordination and control.
Whether you’ve been dealing with symptoms for months or years, getting the right support can make all the difference. Reach out, ask questions, and take that first step toward understanding your body again.

































